Speed dating in Birmingham
Teenagers seem to have absolutely no problems whatsoever when it comes to finding themselves a partner. Yet, the older we get, the harder it becomes. Have you ever stopped to wonder why that might be? The answer is surprisingly simple. Teenagers spend more of their free time socialising than adults do. This leads them to be around more people in their everyday lives. They have the possibility of meeting different people regularly. Especially when their own social groups mix in with others. As adults, we tend to become creatures of habit. Going out to the same bars and restaurants. Meeting with the same people on the same night of the week every week. Our social lives become monotonous. For somebody already in a committed relationship this is not too much of a problem. However, what about those who are single? Never breaking your social routine could actually be damaging to your future dating prospects.
Last month, I wrote about how using dating applications
could help you with finding a partner. This month, I have decided to look at one of the ways of doing face to face dating. Speed dating is becoming one of the most popular ways for people to find themselves a potential date. So, First things first.
What is speed dating?
Speed dating in Birmingham
helps men and women to find a possible love match. The idea of the night is to turn up to a specific location. One which has been purposely set up with lots of tables and two chairs per table facing each other. The idea is that the women remain seated throughout the night. The men will then be given a pre-determined amount of time to have a mini first date with her. Depending on the organisers rules of the night will depend on how long you spend at each table. Normally the time ranges from between 4 to 8 minutes. This should be enough time to give you an idea as to whether you would like to see the other person again, or not. The time is spent asking questions which depending on the answer will ascertain whether or not you have things in common. Normally the event is held in two parts. Half way through the night there will be a short interlude. When you can have a couple of drinks and spend some time chatting to the other sex. Without waiting for a cell to ring to move you on to the next table.
By the end of the night you will have a firm idea as to who you would like to see again. Your list of women is then matched to the women’s list of men that she would like to get to know better. If you ‘match’ with another woman’s list then you will be able to go out on another date. This time the date will be away from the speed dating scene. You will be on your own to arrange the venue. Also, t it will be up to both to see if there is a possibility of finding love.
No date, free return
Some of the organisers allow members who have not made a match. To attend another speed dating night free of charge. Although, you must check if the event that you are going to allows this.
Speed dating is usually arranged by a restaurants event’s organiser. Although, some dating agencies have got on the speed dating bus. They are now setting up speed dating nights too. The night will consist of an equal ratio of men to women. Obviously, an uneven number would not work as the final goal is to pair up potential couples.
All in all, speed dating is a great way to meet people who you would not normally meet. They come from all walks of life. Plus, there is usually a good selection of profession represented too. This form of dating in Birmingham is not suited to everybody. However, it is something that I would personally recommend. As it gives a face to a name. A true face at that. Which is something that cannot be guaranteed when using online dating applications.
One thing that is noted is that this type of dating is not everybody’s cup of tea. A lot of people would rather meet with a woman that they know they will be able to spend more time with. For this reason, an outcall escort in Birmingham might be better suited for them. They can 100% guarantee that they will find the girl that they like the look of in an instant. Also, if you are considering going speed dating. You might consider booking one of Birmingham’s incall escorts
. You could go over your questions with her. Her replies could then help you to practice further conversational skills.